[Prepare yourself for somewhat scattered babble...]
Oxymoron?
I thought so until this year. In fact, new traditions are beautiful things.
Not only do people change, but communities change. And, if traditions are founded on beautiful memories, then it's important to make new beautiful memories that the community can share as a whole rather than only celebrating the memories of a fragment of the people have.
New traditions for this year:
PAPPLES
Derived from "pumpkin apples." One takes an apple, and carves it into whatever shape desired. The illustrious judge then awards each based on what it achieves that the other papples do not.
APPLE SCOTCH
You have to be there. Sorry.
GINGERBREAD HOMES
Judged in the same fashion as the above papples.We came across a box filled with memory bits from last year as we were going through the quiet commons, cleaning it up for next semester. It was hiding under the pile of records, between the old books and the dress-up box. Heartily enjoying the memories. They are not sour.
However, they stay in my room so new traditions can be made and shared for the next four years. Beautiful? I think so.
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Creating new traditions for the next four years is a real deal--we did that my freshman year too. We stopped doing Freedom Fridays and completely um, clothing-less dance parties opted for what fit the present hall better. We added the V-DAY exchange party and the all chocolate Christmas party, and added more things as the years progressed and more people came. Fierce Caledon melded into a more holistic womanist fierce/feminine/strong/beauty-loving Caledon.
Some things that haven't changed from even before my time are the dress-up, awesome dance parties, awesome women, and adventures.
Ieems and I practiced some private traditions even after the hall stopped doing them, so...nostalgia for everyone too.
Cherish the traditions you love (new, old), celebrate the women you love (past, present, future), because community looks great clothed in Love of Being Together rather than strict adherence to some prescribed form of togetherness.
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